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“When I got home that night, my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said,” I owe something I can tell you. “She sat back down and ate quietly, again I noticed The pain in his eyes.
Suddenly I did not know how to open my mouth. But I had to let them know what I thought about the divorce. I raised the subject calmly. She did not seem disturbed by my words, instead she asked me softly, “why?” I avoided his question. That made him angry. She threw the stick away and shouted, “You are not a man”
That night we did not talk. She cried. I knew I wanted to know what had happened to our marriage. But he could not give a satisfactory answer to his little one; I had lost my heart to Jane. He did not want to. Only pity!
With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement, stating that she could own our house, our car, and 30% in my business. She looked, then burst into pieces. The woman who had spent ten years of her life with me had become a stranger. He felt for his loss of time, resources and desolate energy, but I could not pick up what he had said, because I loved Jane so much. At last she cried aloud in front of me, what I thought. For me, his cry was a kind of liberation. The idea of a divorce that had obsessed me for several weeks now seemed to be firmer and clearer.
The next day, I came home very late and found that she wrote something on the table. I did not eat, but went to sleep immediately and slept very quickly, because I’m tired after a long day with Jane. When I awoke, I was still on the table. Only that no matter what I turned around and fell again asleep.
In the morning divorce conditions, she was filed: did not want anything from me but needed a month before the divorce. She asked that the two fought in this month to live a life as normal as possible. Their reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a month and did not want to interfere with our broken marriage. He was kind to me. But he had something more, she asked me to remember what had taken her in the nuptial room on our wedding day. She called me I wear them every day for the entire month of the door to our room each morning. I thought she was going crazy. Together to make it tolerable that for our last days, I accepted his bizarre request.
I tell my wife Jane divorce. She burst out laughing and thought it was absurd. “No matter what stuff you apply, you have to do the divorce,” she said dismissively.
My wife and I had no contact with the body because specific mention of my intention to divorce is made. When I was the first day, we both appeared clumsy. Our son broke out behind us, “Daddy keeps mummy in his arms.” His words brought me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the living room and then to the door, I walked more than ten meters with her in My arms closed She closed her eyes and said softly, “Say our son no divorce” I nodded and I felt a little angry, and put myself in front of the door and waited for the bus to the office work arrived ..
On the second day, the two act much easier. She leaned against my chest. I could feel the perfume of her blouse. I realized that I had not watched this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she was younger. There were wrinkles on his face, his hair was gray! Our marriage had taken its toll. For a moment I was wondering what I had done.
On the fourth day, when I got up, I felt a sense of intimacy again. It was the woman who gave me ten years of her life. On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy has increased again. I’m not saying Jane. It was easier to carry because it spent the month. Maybe the workout every day made me stronger.
She was choosing what to wear tomorrow. It was tested with some clothing, but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my dresses grew. I suddenly realized that she had become so thin that the reason I was able to take it easy. He struck me again … she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart. Unconsciously I strained and stroked his head.
Our son came the time and said. “Dad, it’s time to carry mother” to him, his father saw his mother carrying her had become an essential part of her life. My wife made a sign to our son to get closer and squeezed him hard. I turned my face because I was afraid to change my mind at the last minute. Then I squeezed her from the bedroom walk through the living room into the corridor. His hand surrounded my neck gently and naturally. I SUSPECT his body firmly; It was like our wedding day.
But his much lighter weight made me sad. The last day, when I was in my arms, I could hardly take a step. Our son had gone to school. I squeezed him and said, I had not noticed that our life lacked intimacy. I went to the office … jumped out of the car quickly, without closing the door. I was afraid any delay would give me to change my mind … I went upstairs. Jane opened the door, and I said so. “Sorry, Jane, I will not divorce”
She looked at me, astonished, then touched my forehead. Does she have a fever? she asked. I shook my hand with my head. “Sorry, Jane,” I said, “I will not get a divorce. My marriage was probably annoyed because she and I did not appreciate the details of our lives, not because they loved more Each other Now I realize that since .. I took my house on our wedding day, you should keep till death separates us. Jane suddenly seemed to wake up. She gave me a loud bang, then slammed the door and burst into tears. I went down the stairs and. Went to the flower shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet for my wife, the seller asked me what to write on the card, I smiled and wrote: “I will take every morning until To death separates us “.
Dead – Tonight I came home, flowers in my hand, a smile on my face, I go up the stairs, only to find my wife in her bed. My wife had for months to fight cancer, and I’m so busy with Jane, I did not even notice her. She knew they would die soon and wanted me to save from any negative reaction from our son when we go through a divorce. At least in the eyes of our son, I am a loving husband …
The small details of your life are what really matters in a relationship. It is not the house, the car, the property, the money in the bank. These create a favorable environment for happiness, but can not give happiness in themselves.
So find the time your spouse and friend are doing the little things for others to be to build intimacy. Have a happy marriage!
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If you do, you may want to save a wedding. Most failures in life are people who do not realize how successful they were when they gave up.
Source: Kimmies Floral,
Photo credit: , Maud Chalard
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